Amalie Jennings, a 30-year-old woman whose story touched hearts worldwide, learned early in life how harsh the world could be. Struggling with issues like self-image, bullying, and feeling like an outsider due to her weight, her life was filled with challenges. Yet, Amalie’s journey became one of love, acceptance, and resilience.
Her struggles began in childhood. In a 2019 interview, she shared, “I have always been fat since I was two years old.” As Amalie gained weight rapidly, her mother sought medical advice, but the challenges she faced went far beyond physical health. From kindergarten onwards, Amalie endured relentless bullying. She recalled, “My oldest memory of bullying is in kindergarten when I was around four. All the kids picked on me for being fat.”
As Amalie grew, the bullying only worsened. She struggled with a negative self-image and turned to self-harm. Shopping for clothes became a painful reminder of her isolation; even as a child, she had to shop in the women’s section because children’s clothes didn’t fit her. These experiences left her feeling disconnected and unseen, in a world where people like her were rarely represented.
However, amid these challenges, a life-changing connection transformed Amalie’s world. She met her future husband, Sean, through an online PlayStation game. Their relationship began as a friendship based on meaningful conversations rather than appearances. While they had exchanged photos, Amalie’s insecurities made her hesitant. “I could see how fat I was in the pictures, but he kept talking to me,” she admitted. “I would hide my double chin, but he didn’t care—he just wanted to talk to me.”
Over time, their bond deepened into love. After subtly hinting at her feelings, Amalie’s joy was overwhelming when Sean returned them. “It was the weirdest feeling because I hadn’t had luck with boyfriends before. And finally, here’s this guy, 500 miles away, who fancies me as much as I fancy him,” she shared.
Amalie later moved from Denmark to England to be with Sean, turning their long-distance relationship into a life together. Although they were happy, they faced judgment from others who questioned why Sean, a slim man, would be with her. Sean remained steadfast in his love for Amalie, always making it clear that he adored her for who she was, not how she looked. Despite their strong bond, the couple faced personal challenges, including estrangement from Sean’s father.
Through her platform, Amalie became a vocal advocate against fatphobia, encouraging self-acceptance. She shared a powerful message: “Stop wasting time hating yourself. Yes, your body is different, but that doesn’t mean it’s a bad body. You can’t stop people from saying things about you, but you can stop letting it affect you. You will find people who love you—who love your body for what it is.”
Amalie’s story illuminated the harmful effects of body shaming and emphasized the need for kindness and empathy. She reminded others that shaming doesn’t inspire positive change but often deepens feelings of worthlessness. Her courage in sharing her journey motivated countless individuals to embrace self-love and reject societal judgment.
In 2019, Amalie and Sean’s story went viral, garnering admiration for their love and resilience. Tragically, Amalie passed away on July 15, 2024, at the age of 30. Her obituary described her as “beloved and missed,” with a heartfelt message: “When you see a star twinkle, it’s me waving at you.”
Though Amalie’s life was short, her impact remains profound. Her story of self-acceptance, love, and advocacy for a kinder world continues to inspire. As we remember her, let us honor her legacy by working toward a world where everyone feels seen, valued, and loved. Our thoughts are with Sean and her family during this difficult time.